#1: I want my butch friend to wear a dress, and she said no! #2: My butch friend would hate wearing a dress, so what should I ask her to wear? I’ve been on all sides of this: the reluctant dress-wearing bridesmaid, the tie-sporting bridesmaid, and (many years ago) the hetero bride.
So anyway, your lesbian bridesmaid won't wear a dress. Whatever, man. Pantsuits are just fine. Katharin Hepburn hated dresses and refused to wear them .
Dear Dr. Darcy: I have 3 daughters, the middle daughter (straight) is getting married, and youngest daughter (gay) was asked to be in bridal.